A surprise is only as good as the setting. And to create the perfect spontaneous moment, you’ll need to plan a little. Start off with finding a time for the surprise when she won’t be rushed or tired (at least not exhausted). Let her have time to appreciate your surprise.

It’s amazing what a well chosen bouquet and a few scented candles can do. Wine helps too—but only if it’s a kind that she really likes. And a clean house also makes for the beginnings of a great surprise for your beautiful lady.

The bath surprise

What woman doesn’t feel like a goddess when she’s in the bathtub by herself? Leave a note for your woman to go to the bathroom where she’ll find all of her favorite bath products and candles. Leave instructions on what she should do with this time. A stereo with some soothing music is always nice. Tell her that she should relax and enjoy her time alone. You can even bathe her if you think she would like that. Washing a woman’s hair is very erotic and feels great. Use your fingertips to massage the scalp slowly and thoroughly. Of course, you can rinse her hair out and then help her brush it. The trick with combing long hair is to start from the bottom and work your way up. Snagged hair is not sexy at all. Take your time.

The masseuse

There’s nothing sexier than a relaxed woman after a massage. Start with finding an area that is warm and inviting for her to lie on. A massage table is best, but a bed will do in a pinch. Make sure that the room is heated because massage makes the body cool down. No need for her to freeze. You’ll want to find some massage oil for the actual massage. Ylang ylang, sandalwood, and anything musky are great sensual scents. You can even start the massage after the bath surprise. To give a great massage, you’ll want to use the bigger parts of your hand—the palm and the heel. Using fingers can be painful because that exerts a lot of pressure on a little space. A lot of people don’t know this. Use long smooth stokes across the areas with a lot of muscle. This means that you can massage harder on the legs and buttocks, while the arms and neck need a softer touch. And nothing beats a good hand and foot massage. In a pinch, these two alone are great sexy surprises. Rub firmly in the centers of the palm and the bottom of the foot. Use a massage lotion on these areas because they tend to be drier than other areas of the body. Take your time with the massage and ask her what feels good. Then repeat whatever she liked. Another trick is to finish off with gently brushing the fingertips over the surface of the body in a sweeping motion. This feels like a feather being smoothed over the skin and it very relaxing as a finishing move.

Sexy gifts that will satisfy any woman

A lot of men are afraid to buy their woman lingerie because they think that they look shallow by doing this. They think that they look like they only have sex on their mind. And while this might be true, finding lingerie that matches their partner is a great way to show affection. Think about what your woman might like. If she doesn’t like to show a lot of skin, think about a cami or a baby doll. Perhaps she might like a corset or a nice thong. And for the everyday sex appeal, you can buy her some stockings or a nice garter belt. While these look sexy in the bedroom, they’re also great additions to a work wardrobe. There you go, now you look practical as well as affectionate. Surprising the sexy woman in your life is easy. Now, get to planning!

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Female libido problems are all too common nowadays and studies in some very reputable health magazines speculate that over 60% of women suffer regularly. There are many reasons that this may occur in women such as lack of mental stimulation by their partner, physical insecurities, no foreplay, falling out of love, physiologic issues, depression, and many more. This being said, there are strategies that you can implement today to turn your sex life around and experience the libido, pleasure, and more intense orgasm you deserve.

Let’s begin with sexual arousal. You can initiate a heightened sexual arousal by viewing erotic movies and using sex toys with your current partner. Even the most conservative of couples receive positive stimulation and pleasure from these things. People like and gravitate more to video than static magazines as well. You can find videos that are romantic, sensual, loving, erotic or feminine. Don’t feel bad or awkward about watching them either, as this can hurt your libido even more.

Next, it’s important to delve into your mind and see that you are consciously and subconsciously thinking about. Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings when you are engaging in sexual intercourse. Are you thinking of what you have to do tomorrow or are you using an erotic fantasy to get you in an increased mood? You must make an attempt to control your thinking during intimate times or your sex life will continue to lack and be disappointing.

I recommend keeping a diary of your thoughts and mood and if they change during the day. Pay attention to when you feel the most energy. Also, note when you get agitated and upset. Do you think about sex? If so, when? If you start to realize a pattern then start to plan time for sex around that segment. Would a nice glass of wine and some candles put you in the mood? Like Socrates once said… “Know thyself.”

You may want to take an exotic week vacation with your partner to get away from the boring scenery you surround yourself with. This is not a cure-all but can give you both time alone to mend your sexual frustrations in a romantic setting. Some many want to even consider a small vacation of just a few days if your schedule does not permit you to take an extended stay somewhere.

If you’re still not feeling sexually aroused, you can bet your partner will feel responsible, which will inhibit his or her performance in the bedroom. Men can be just as sensitive as women sometimes when it comes to rejection in the sack. Going to see a medical doctor or sex therapist is also a good idea if this is the case, as they can give you many options for enhancing your libido and intimacy.

Finally, consider using a female sexual arousal product or natural female libido enhancer. There are many products in the marketplace that do a great job at intensifying your sexual experience and give you a ferocious libido. Make sure you find reviews from real people that have used the libido booster supplements first, though. There are many gimmicks on the market so you want to go with the real deal and a product that has been scientifically proven to work. The good news is that there have been major advancements in this area for women so you’re sure to find something that will make your toes curl!

These female libido enhancers can come in pill form, gel, and cream. Decide on which one your prefer then give it a whirl. You owe it to yourself to experience the sexual pleasure that you deserve. Stop settling for less, as it will only hurt your more and cause more frustration in the long run.

Lovemaking is a wonderful activity that should be enjoyed. Time changes people and some lose the knack of love but lovemaking should encompass the reasons that you fell in love with your wife. You can learn to please your wife, while still receiving pleasure in return. Pleasing your wife in bed is not hard, you may need to understand the problem. You have weapons within your fingertips and these weapons include foreplay sex, sex toys and other vices that can be deployed in the bedroom. Some of the gifts may need a little polishing and sharpening to perform at their best.

How To Please Your Wife Tips:

1) It Starts Outside The Bedroom:

Telling her earlier in the day that she looks amazing, or flirtatiously slapping her bum as you head out to work. That night you can wine and dine her, or do some nice gesture without being asked, like cleaning up after dinner and taking the garbage out. All of these seemingly minor gestures will make her feel happy and cared for. This will make her feel comfortable and relaxed.

2) Comfort and Relaxation:

Give her a sensual massage and be thorough. Enjoy touching her body, and listen for verbal and physical cues. The neck, spine and inner thighs are very closely linked to pleasure so make sure not to miss these points.

3) Last Longer:

Easier said then done, I know, however there are many techniques that will not stimulate the penis and slow the pace of reaching climax (for you, not her). Examples of this are changing positions regularly, pulling out if you feel like you’re getting close to orgasm, or using fingering or oral stimulation techniques.

4) Use Your Fingers:

Using your fingers is a very practical way to hit the right spots in the vagina, both the clitoris and the G-spot. The reason for this is your fingers are dexterous, and can feel out specific points. As you finger her or massage the clitoris, you can kiss her passionately.

5) Go Down On Her:

Cunnilingus is by far your best option for getting your wife to climax. The feeling of soft lips, and wet tongue on the vagina and clitoris will make most women ecstatic. One method that seems to be effective is to pretend you are writing cursive writing with your tongue on her clitoris. For a more basic method, use your tongue to write your ABC’s over and across the clitoris area.

Going down on your wife will be tiring, however it is time well spent for pleasing her. The more you perform cunnilingus the better you get at the act.

There is so many ways to pleasure your wife. Think about her needs when you are performing any sexual act, and it will mean the difference between a quick fix and a passionate session. As a man, being able to stimulate her and bring her to orgasm will make you feel amazing. Try out these tips and tricks, and you are sure to spark some fireworks.

Sex is the release of love through physical labor and chemicals of the bodies. There are many problems that are related to sex and some can be discussed here or with your doctor. You may feel less confident from an experience in the past but there are techniques to develop to boost your confidence level. Foreplay is a skill set that needs development through experience. Foreplay is an activity that benefits both you and your wife. Sex is about receiving and giving during the activity. You can also use oral sex and finger techniques to please your wife in the bedroom.

If that “spark” has left your sex life, and you’re looking for a little something extra to put it back in, then your search is over. In this article, I’m going to share with you some of my time-honored, sure-fire romantic, creative foreplay ideas to get you and your partner out of your rut and start enjoying sex again!

Idea #1: Red Gold

Roses are fantastic. Not only do we all have a fairly strong association of sex when we think of red roses, you can also use them in powerful and creative ways in the bedroom.

One of my favorite things to do is go to my local florist and pick up some rose petals and a couple of red roses. Strip the covers off your bed and sprinkle the petals over the bed. It’s quick and easy and you’ve just created a killer backdrop for a night of sensual lovin.’ Add some soft music and some nice incense, plus a bottle of wine and you just created the perfect environment for a night of steamy hot passion.

If you’re feeling extra creative you can even use the petals to write a message. For bonus points, you can write words with petals of one colour and use different coloured petals as a “backdrop”. Personally, I find that doing this makes me almost not want to spoil it, but if I ever (heaven forbid) wanted to propose, this would probably be the way I’d do it.

Idea #2: Fruity

Sex, and especially foreplay, requires a fairly active sense of touch to be able to fully appreciate the benefits it offers. To get you and your partner’s touch receptors working again, why not try playing a game? One of you closes your eyes (or wears a blindfold), whilst the other one uses various props to re-awaken that dormant sense of touch. You can try running fruit such as berries of slices of various fruit up and down your lover’s body, eventually into their mouth where they can savor the taste. For added effect, try licking up any juices it leaves behind, and alternate between using the fruit and your finger or genitalia.

Idea #3: Touchy-Feely

Another great game to play with a blindfold, this requires you to have some props handy that you can use for stimulation. Feather ticklers, your fingers, and your tongue are always a sure hit, whilst other couples may like to experiment with vibrators, candle wax, paddles, riding crops, ice cubes – whatever gets your blood racing. This is particularly good when you use opposite stimulation in quick succession or together – for example, running an ice cube along your partner’s nipples and then running your warm tongue over the cold area to warm it up.

If you use these tips tonight, I guarantee you will soon have more passion and excitement back in your sex life – and your relationship – than you would have thought possible.