Marriage Relationship Sex – As Good as Eating Chocolate!
Do you want to have sex to be as good as eating Chocolate? Did you even know that sex could be like eating a good piece of chocolate?
Well, let me tell you, there is a good reason why the world loves chocolate and great sex.
Actually I bet if given the chance to have a rich and rewarding and fulfilling sex life – we would all raise our hands to be choco-holics.
Do you want to have a relationship that last, something to savor, something to look forward to? Especially year after year and have the sex life to match? Do you? Well, here are some simple thoughts to get you on your way.
Step one: Treat your sex life like chocolate candy – Don’t take it for granted that you will always have it, there may be other candy in the store but nothing takes the place of chocolate.
Step two: Savor the moment. If you got a box of chocolate, it’s kind of wasteful to just sit and down the whole thing. Pace yourself. Savor the moment.
My son, recently home from college on spring break, was craving mint chocolate chip ice cream. Ice cream is one of the things that doesn’t survive the trip from the store to his apartment in a backpack. So who could blame his cravings? After all we are talking about mint chocolate chip ice cream. Humm, just the thought of that delightful snap of the dark chocolate swirled in a field of rich velvety smooth cream. And as Rachael Ray would say “yumm-o”.
So the indulgent mom that I am the next day a carton of mint chocolate chip ice cream just, magically, appeared in the freezer. I didn’t have to tell him that it was there, for it was only moments later that his “growing boy” internal radar some how knew. Seconds later, the prized ice cream heaped high in a cereal bowl he was in front of the television. With great anticipation of the that long remembered flavor, he shoveled a healthy glob of the ice cream into his mouth. Aha… what a rush… but wait a moment, he discovered the mint chocolate chip ice cream just didn’t come up to his expectation.
It is not that the ice cream was not all that it could be, it was something he remembered as the first swallow went down.
His mind when back to a time when buried in some ancient copy of a Women’s magazine on the doctor’s waiting room table, there was a small article about ice cream. He remembered now that ice cream has to come to just the right temperature for the full flavor to be at it’s peak. So with the dish nestled in his warm hands and with a couple of quick stirs, aha… the perfect mint chocolate chip ice cream experience.
Step three: Are you rushing sex without taking the time to let things warm up to it just the right temperature? Sex gets so much better, richer and fulfilling when time is given for you to reach your peak. It may not seem like a lot but for women even 11 minutes warm up will reap great rewards.
Sex, is something to savor, relationships, especially over the years, are like fine wines, masterpiece paintings and good food. To be honest, there is nothing like having loving, fulfilling and like chocolate, life time full of rewarding sex.